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No Catching Feeling, Please!

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Who says that?

I'm not catching feeling to you. I'm just feeling good when you're around me. But, honestly I might admit that I catch feeling to you later.

Is it common that when you meet someone new and feel that he might be the one. I know, it sounds crazy but trust me I don't know how I can tell that. From the bottom of my heart, I don't believe in relationship. It feels like full time job to me or like a messenger to someone about what you're doing or what you'd done. It's pretty exhausting. No offense. But. you might wanna know that I'm never in relationship yet so I'm so sorry to say that. Anyway, you're so lucky if you're in relationship right now. Cause, you don't have to feel the pain of catching feelings to someone.

Catching feelings is more than you liked someone and they don't like you back. The hardest part is when you are still close to them and they just get into someone else. They might know that you have crushing on them. But, they just ignore that cause back again they are not into you.

Does it hurt? It depends. You have to used to it. Cause, in every dates that you go is always directing into two, you might get your plus one or you are still the only one. Actually, I wanna know how many dates that you have gone. How many conversations that you had. How many persons who might into you too. I know it's hard to count it but it might help you to your next move. The most important question is how many times you let yourself catching feeling to someone. The math is also working for this. The matter of fact, you might not let yourself catching feeling as many times you went on dates. I totally understand that it just happens to some.

I wonder what you feel in case you are the person who catching feeling to someone. Is it felt like exhausting? Is it felt like you really wanna get out of your chest to say that you want them? I bet yes. It felt like you wish you could call them as your partner. Spending the sunset with bucket picnic in secret garden. Going to movies and kissing while the actors getting bored. Cuddling in white sheets with deep music plays on Spotify. Or talking about the untold story about yourself while seeing the stars in the night sky. You wish it could really be happened, couldn't it? What I can say, catching feelings is suck.

Try to always keep telling yourself before going on a date. Stop catch feeling! It's exhausting! Ignore all the possibilities. Just go for it. Let the sparks with your date keep going between you and them.

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